Forgive
One can not simply forgive and forget
One can engage in a process of forgiveness through patience, openness and honest reflection. There is never just one story, one emotion and one practice and as a process we must keep coming back to it time and time again.
When we engage in the process, like dealing with grief, the other side will come and the light will be a little brighter.
Forgiveness is a super power for yourself and others.